What Couples Will Fight Over
Almost every couple has troubles that they argue about. What matters is how
it's handled, so it doesn't damage the relationship. We`ve come up with some
great solutions listed below over the common troubles lovers argue over.
The family tree- Almost every couple will fight about which family members
they will be going to when it's time for the holidays. To help people see a
hidden problem mixed up in this dilemma, people will usually only see their
family once a year, the holidays.
What can be done is to visit them outside
of holidays, spending more time with relatives. If this isn’t an option, then
talking more on the phone, through Skype, or the internet can close the
relationship space. Taking turns to see each side of the family is another
solution, but won’t resolve the probable root issue.
Work- Work can be a problem in a relationship, especially if it`s taking away
from your time together, which could be the real problem.
North Americans
are widely known for having two key problems when it comes to family life. The
first is that they prioritize their time towards work instead of relationships.
It’s not really work that takes all their time, it’s that they prioritize work
over relational time, so as a result, work takes all their time. The next is
they have a bad habit of becoming too busy. The activities outside of work that
they choose to do are a choice, and nothing more. The true issue typically isn’t
work in itself, but the habit and mentality of not prioritizing
relationships.
it's handled, so it doesn't damage the relationship. We`ve come up with some
great solutions listed below over the common troubles lovers argue over.
The family tree- Almost every couple will fight about which family members
they will be going to when it's time for the holidays. To help people see a
hidden problem mixed up in this dilemma, people will usually only see their
family once a year, the holidays.
What can be done is to visit them outside
of holidays, spending more time with relatives. If this isn’t an option, then
talking more on the phone, through Skype, or the internet can close the
relationship space. Taking turns to see each side of the family is another
solution, but won’t resolve the probable root issue.
Work- Work can be a problem in a relationship, especially if it`s taking away
from your time together, which could be the real problem.
North Americans
are widely known for having two key problems when it comes to family life. The
first is that they prioritize their time towards work instead of relationships.
It’s not really work that takes all their time, it’s that they prioritize work
over relational time, so as a result, work takes all their time. The next is
they have a bad habit of becoming too busy. The activities outside of work that
they choose to do are a choice, and nothing more. The true issue typically isn’t
work in itself, but the habit and mentality of not prioritizing
relationships.
Sex- Sex is frequently an argument that comes up in any relationship. With
different sex drives and expectations growing up about sex, it`s no wonder it`s
a hot topic. This problem comes down to overcoming a few misunderstandings from
Hollywood and pornography put in our minds while growing up. When it comes to
sex, it also needs to be communicated openly and expectations laid bare in a
relationship to get the most of it.
Pin pointing the problems in the relationship- What people need to respect
while living together, is that different matters can irritate their partner in
different quantities. To one person, leaving the kitchen messy may not be such a
big deal, but in their partners eyes, it`s huge. What needs to be done is to
explain on a scale of ten, how much a bad habit annoys each other. A Price needs
to be attributed to the habit. People may have known that it was annoying, but
may not have had a clear idea of how much. This way they can effectively
understand how bad their habits are.
Money- Financial troubles are actually one of the main factors for
separation in the United States. People handle their finances differently and
that can be demanding on its own. One of the most overlooked problems when
planning to move in together is the topic of money. People just assume that
because they love each other, matters will work out. What people don`t
comprehend is that when people start living together, their ways of managing
finances need to change as well. They need to develop a couple mindset of
spending, otherwise their money issues, can spill into their
relationship.
different sex drives and expectations growing up about sex, it`s no wonder it`s
a hot topic. This problem comes down to overcoming a few misunderstandings from
Hollywood and pornography put in our minds while growing up. When it comes to
sex, it also needs to be communicated openly and expectations laid bare in a
relationship to get the most of it.
Pin pointing the problems in the relationship- What people need to respect
while living together, is that different matters can irritate their partner in
different quantities. To one person, leaving the kitchen messy may not be such a
big deal, but in their partners eyes, it`s huge. What needs to be done is to
explain on a scale of ten, how much a bad habit annoys each other. A Price needs
to be attributed to the habit. People may have known that it was annoying, but
may not have had a clear idea of how much. This way they can effectively
understand how bad their habits are.
Money- Financial troubles are actually one of the main factors for
separation in the United States. People handle their finances differently and
that can be demanding on its own. One of the most overlooked problems when
planning to move in together is the topic of money. People just assume that
because they love each other, matters will work out. What people don`t
comprehend is that when people start living together, their ways of managing
finances need to change as well. They need to develop a couple mindset of
spending, otherwise their money issues, can spill into their
relationship.
Worries- Stress from work, family, road rage or whatever the reason, can add
to any relationship. The things we pick up throughout the day can weigh us down
and as a result, we take it out on our partner. What`s needed are methods like;
breathing, prayer, walks, and other habits that decrease stress. In the long
run, we can`t change whether or not stress comes along in life, but we can alter
how we deal with it.
Weekends- Couples will argue over what the other does with their free time.
The way it usually goes is; after work, after the chores are done, when The
weekend comes around, or when people finally gets time to themselves, their
partner already has intentions in mind for them.
Free time is a valuable
asset to everyone, and holding it back from them will usually result in an
argument. The best solution is to do things that both parties enjoy, not trading
between what one person likes and the other doesn`t. Then if you can`t find
something you both enjoy, discover something new to do together. This way people
don`t resent being in a relationship.
You`ve most likely by now had a few of these arguments. Listening, talking,
and reaching a compromise are key to finding a solution. What can help also is
getting the right grounding for your relationship by asking the right questions
and learning the most about your significant other.
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to any relationship. The things we pick up throughout the day can weigh us down
and as a result, we take it out on our partner. What`s needed are methods like;
breathing, prayer, walks, and other habits that decrease stress. In the long
run, we can`t change whether or not stress comes along in life, but we can alter
how we deal with it.
Weekends- Couples will argue over what the other does with their free time.
The way it usually goes is; after work, after the chores are done, when The
weekend comes around, or when people finally gets time to themselves, their
partner already has intentions in mind for them.
Free time is a valuable
asset to everyone, and holding it back from them will usually result in an
argument. The best solution is to do things that both parties enjoy, not trading
between what one person likes and the other doesn`t. Then if you can`t find
something you both enjoy, discover something new to do together. This way people
don`t resent being in a relationship.
You`ve most likely by now had a few of these arguments. Listening, talking,
and reaching a compromise are key to finding a solution. What can help also is
getting the right grounding for your relationship by asking the right questions
and learning the most about your significant other.
More Related Articles:
How can I find love
Spotting baggage
1000 questions for couples