Important Questions Couples Should Ask Themselves
In the passion and high of being in love, couples can neglect the important
questions they should be asking themselves. Couples should be asking themselves
important questions, and plotting for the future of their relationship. Some
vital questions they may want to ask are listed below.
What does the relationship's next chapter look like?
In the process of
being in love, sometimes people will fall in love at separate rates, and as a
result have different plans for the relationship. While it works well for some
people to just go with the flow and see what happens, other couples will need to
work to get their relationship to where they want it to be. You should be in
control of your relationship, so take it.
questions they should be asking themselves. Couples should be asking themselves
important questions, and plotting for the future of their relationship. Some
vital questions they may want to ask are listed below.
What does the relationship's next chapter look like?
In the process of
being in love, sometimes people will fall in love at separate rates, and as a
result have different plans for the relationship. While it works well for some
people to just go with the flow and see what happens, other couples will need to
work to get their relationship to where they want it to be. You should be in
control of your relationship, so take it.
As far as goals go, are we on the same page?
We all have wishes in life,
in areas of; career, children, places to live, wanting to travel. These wishes
can conflict with our partners.
Some ambitions to check on are in areas of;
wanting family, if your profession holds you down to the place you live,
travelling, the size of home, the car you want to drive. Where one person may
want to journey and explore the world, the other may be attached down to their
profession. Rather than falling too far in love with each other without looking
to see the end result, people should check to see if their lives are
compatible.
The languages of love
What people may not realize is that as different as
people are from one another, they also show their love and collect their love in
different ways. They are expressed through; giving presents, doing tasks for
them, caressing, comforting, complimenting words, being there and spending time
together. This way a couple’s love in a relationship will be expressed and
received in the most effective way. What a person thinks their partner will love
the most, may be completely different than what their partner actually
wants.
We all have wishes in life,
in areas of; career, children, places to live, wanting to travel. These wishes
can conflict with our partners.
Some ambitions to check on are in areas of;
wanting family, if your profession holds you down to the place you live,
travelling, the size of home, the car you want to drive. Where one person may
want to journey and explore the world, the other may be attached down to their
profession. Rather than falling too far in love with each other without looking
to see the end result, people should check to see if their lives are
compatible.
The languages of love
What people may not realize is that as different as
people are from one another, they also show their love and collect their love in
different ways. They are expressed through; giving presents, doing tasks for
them, caressing, comforting, complimenting words, being there and spending time
together. This way a couple’s love in a relationship will be expressed and
received in the most effective way. What a person thinks their partner will love
the most, may be completely different than what their partner actually
wants.
What bothers them the most
Using the same concept from the point of
understanding your partners love language, it's vital to know what annoys them
the most in a relationship or living with them. This way large problems that get
viewed as being insignificant in your eyes can be avoided as you understand how
much they actually hurt your relationship.
Do you enjoy the same activities?
It is said that relationships are about
compromise right? Things like, hanging out with his buddies even though she
doesn’t like them that much, just so they can be together. It’s important that
people convey effectively what they enjoy and what they don’t enjoy doing as a
couple, don’t just bear with it. If one person is always trying to do things
they don’t like just so they can get along as a couple, two things will happen.
The first is they will get burnt out doing it. The second is they will
ultimately hate doing that activity, and unsurprisingly hate the other person.
What should be done is to keep open communication about what they enjoy doing
together and what they barely tolerate. This way people can find things or
friends they mutually enjoy together.
Using the same concept from the point of
understanding your partners love language, it's vital to know what annoys them
the most in a relationship or living with them. This way large problems that get
viewed as being insignificant in your eyes can be avoided as you understand how
much they actually hurt your relationship.
Do you enjoy the same activities?
It is said that relationships are about
compromise right? Things like, hanging out with his buddies even though she
doesn’t like them that much, just so they can be together. It’s important that
people convey effectively what they enjoy and what they don’t enjoy doing as a
couple, don’t just bear with it. If one person is always trying to do things
they don’t like just so they can get along as a couple, two things will happen.
The first is they will get burnt out doing it. The second is they will
ultimately hate doing that activity, and unsurprisingly hate the other person.
What should be done is to keep open communication about what they enjoy doing
together and what they barely tolerate. This way people can find things or
friends they mutually enjoy together.
It's not just about the emotions
Many people don't consider this all that
important for a relationship; you'd be surprised by how many people are willing
to date someone that they can't really depend on to be there for them... just
because they want to feel like they're loved. Does the other person make time
for them? Are they there for them? You should be able to know that your partner
isn't going to cheat on you, lie to you, or do things behind your back. And if
you need someone, they should be the first person by your side, ready to help
you through any problems you have--no matter where they are.
The way arguing happens
Where it isn’t unusual for couples to battle, and
may in fact be beneficial for a couple to do so, fighting can also break up a
relationship. What’s vital is how couples deal with fighting. This is because
communication is brutally honest while we battle. But does it end with
compromise and listening? Or are insults left to wound, and things are swept
under the rug? Arguing is only good if it is handled in the proper manner.
By asking the right questions, a couple can make themselves prepared for the
future of their relationship. Not only will the right questions help save your
relationship from potential problems, but they can also develop a beautiful,
lasting, communication pattern between you and your partner.
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Many people don't consider this all that
important for a relationship; you'd be surprised by how many people are willing
to date someone that they can't really depend on to be there for them... just
because they want to feel like they're loved. Does the other person make time
for them? Are they there for them? You should be able to know that your partner
isn't going to cheat on you, lie to you, or do things behind your back. And if
you need someone, they should be the first person by your side, ready to help
you through any problems you have--no matter where they are.
The way arguing happens
Where it isn’t unusual for couples to battle, and
may in fact be beneficial for a couple to do so, fighting can also break up a
relationship. What’s vital is how couples deal with fighting. This is because
communication is brutally honest while we battle. But does it end with
compromise and listening? Or are insults left to wound, and things are swept
under the rug? Arguing is only good if it is handled in the proper manner.
By asking the right questions, a couple can make themselves prepared for the
future of their relationship. Not only will the right questions help save your
relationship from potential problems, but they can also develop a beautiful,
lasting, communication pattern between you and your partner.
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