Possibilities on Why He Broke up Without Telling You
It's unfortunate if you've ever experienced a separation, especially one
where he doesn't give you a decent reason why. Sometimes he has a reason but
doesn't want to explain it with you because he doesn't want to bring emotional
agony, other times he does know why, but doesn't know how to tell you so he
doesn't give you a reason. To help with the doubt and confusion, here are some
of the reasons why guys can act distant and not give you an explanation for the
break up.
He wants room to breathe
Men really do need room. This is a concept that
is difficult for women to understand because they are so unlike this. Men and
women understand closeness in various ways. Men need to preserve who they are
while in a relationship, meaning to say that they need time away for themselves
periodically. Giving them that time enables them to breathe and permits them to
be closer when you do have time with each other.
Family and religion come first
Usually his impression of you can be swayed
by what his loved ones want him to do. Where he once thought you could do no
wrong, these thoughts can be swayed from the thoughts of what his loved ones
pressure him into. This can be especially true if his family is strict and you
don't share the same devotion.
where he doesn't give you a decent reason why. Sometimes he has a reason but
doesn't want to explain it with you because he doesn't want to bring emotional
agony, other times he does know why, but doesn't know how to tell you so he
doesn't give you a reason. To help with the doubt and confusion, here are some
of the reasons why guys can act distant and not give you an explanation for the
break up.
He wants room to breathe
Men really do need room. This is a concept that
is difficult for women to understand because they are so unlike this. Men and
women understand closeness in various ways. Men need to preserve who they are
while in a relationship, meaning to say that they need time away for themselves
periodically. Giving them that time enables them to breathe and permits them to
be closer when you do have time with each other.
Family and religion come first
Usually his impression of you can be swayed
by what his loved ones want him to do. Where he once thought you could do no
wrong, these thoughts can be swayed from the thoughts of what his loved ones
pressure him into. This can be especially true if his family is strict and you
don't share the same devotion.
Knew that he was going away
He may not have been certain, but whispers
from his coworkers of a better career may have floated around and the desire of
a better position someplace else is something that has been waiting in the back
of his mind. Many men and women will pick careers over dates.
Your lifestyles didn't match
Deep down inside he understood that your way
of living didn't come together. This could mean your job goals, places you
wanted to live, or measure of time you got to utilize together weren't kindred.
In his thoughts the match wasn't matching up with his other areas in life.
Decided to discover who he is
Has he been keeping to himself for several
days? Locked you out and doesn't want to talk? Sometimes it really isn't your
fault, but him. Having a path to follow and finding yourself is important, and
some men and women can fall into hopelessness without it. During this state of
despondency, other things like jobs and loved ones don't seem necessary. Look to
see if he is strange like this about work and other areas of life; this can be a
tell-tale sign that he is feeling this.
Wanted to change the direction of his life
We all have desires of where we
want to be in life. Sometimes the final push is in a separate department of
life, such as a disappointment at his office. This can be the last straw that
makes us feel that life isn't where you want it to be. As a side-effect,
individuals can change completely and try to change all of their life, unluckily
involving the areas of loved ones.
He may not have been certain, but whispers
from his coworkers of a better career may have floated around and the desire of
a better position someplace else is something that has been waiting in the back
of his mind. Many men and women will pick careers over dates.
Your lifestyles didn't match
Deep down inside he understood that your way
of living didn't come together. This could mean your job goals, places you
wanted to live, or measure of time you got to utilize together weren't kindred.
In his thoughts the match wasn't matching up with his other areas in life.
Decided to discover who he is
Has he been keeping to himself for several
days? Locked you out and doesn't want to talk? Sometimes it really isn't your
fault, but him. Having a path to follow and finding yourself is important, and
some men and women can fall into hopelessness without it. During this state of
despondency, other things like jobs and loved ones don't seem necessary. Look to
see if he is strange like this about work and other areas of life; this can be a
tell-tale sign that he is feeling this.
Wanted to change the direction of his life
We all have desires of where we
want to be in life. Sometimes the final push is in a separate department of
life, such as a disappointment at his office. This can be the last straw that
makes us feel that life isn't where you want it to be. As a side-effect,
individuals can change completely and try to change all of their life, unluckily
involving the areas of loved ones.
No longer feels the same way
Many immature boys just thrive off the
passion they get from a relationship; they have no devotion or responsibility to
a date. When their feelings run dry, they don't want to stay any longer because
they don't have the ability to make a relationship successful. He may not say
anything to you because he knows you're a loving partner and doesn't want to
crush your emotions. See if he has treated his exes this way before.
He wants something else from a relationship
People want diverse things
from relationships. They can change from; friendship, intimacy, being together,
to low maintenance, etc. Occasionally finding what you want from life can only
be done through discovering yourself and what you want in a relationship. He may
have expected he comprehended what he desired in a partner, but these can shift
from time to time.
He has been hurt
Men sometimes can be very childish when it comes to how
they cope and process their feelings. If you have harmed him in some way, he can
be confused about his thoughts and not know what to think because he doesn't
actually understand what he is feeling or how to explain it. Or he can handle it
childishly and not display his emotions because he doesn't want to come off as
soft or insecure. As a result of either, he never communicates properly.
Many immature boys just thrive off the
passion they get from a relationship; they have no devotion or responsibility to
a date. When their feelings run dry, they don't want to stay any longer because
they don't have the ability to make a relationship successful. He may not say
anything to you because he knows you're a loving partner and doesn't want to
crush your emotions. See if he has treated his exes this way before.
He wants something else from a relationship
People want diverse things
from relationships. They can change from; friendship, intimacy, being together,
to low maintenance, etc. Occasionally finding what you want from life can only
be done through discovering yourself and what you want in a relationship. He may
have expected he comprehended what he desired in a partner, but these can shift
from time to time.
He has been hurt
Men sometimes can be very childish when it comes to how
they cope and process their feelings. If you have harmed him in some way, he can
be confused about his thoughts and not know what to think because he doesn't
actually understand what he is feeling or how to explain it. Or he can handle it
childishly and not display his emotions because he doesn't want to come off as
soft or insecure. As a result of either, he never communicates properly.
Pressure from the outside world
When it comes to dealing with tension, men
can from time to time shut down. If there is too much pressure from jobs, loved
ones, or additional possibilities going on in his life, he can take it out on
his girlfriend. In an attempt to center attention on the department with the
question, he will shut down in his life so that he can concentrate on the issue.
Small troubles in relationships can be taken by him as big ones. He may not be
willing to give you an explanation for the end of the relationship as he really
doesn't have one; he just wanted to work with the other issue.
He may love someone other than you
The most fearful and blatant is that he
is sleeping with someone else. Perhaps it isn't complete cheating; possibly he
has grown emotions for a friend or someone you know.
When he gives no explanation for the separation, it's very likely that he had
a necessary reason to do so, but didn't know how to put his thoughts into words.
If he couldn't tell you a reason, it often doesn't have anything to do with you,
but him. Do yourself a favor and stop bashing yourself, sometimes the saying is
true, that it isn't you it's him.
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When it comes to dealing with tension, men
can from time to time shut down. If there is too much pressure from jobs, loved
ones, or additional possibilities going on in his life, he can take it out on
his girlfriend. In an attempt to center attention on the department with the
question, he will shut down in his life so that he can concentrate on the issue.
Small troubles in relationships can be taken by him as big ones. He may not be
willing to give you an explanation for the end of the relationship as he really
doesn't have one; he just wanted to work with the other issue.
He may love someone other than you
The most fearful and blatant is that he
is sleeping with someone else. Perhaps it isn't complete cheating; possibly he
has grown emotions for a friend or someone you know.
When he gives no explanation for the separation, it's very likely that he had
a necessary reason to do so, but didn't know how to put his thoughts into words.
If he couldn't tell you a reason, it often doesn't have anything to do with you,
but him. Do yourself a favor and stop bashing yourself, sometimes the saying is
true, that it isn't you it's him.
More Interesting Articles:
Misunderstandings Women Have About Men
Men Made Easy